📌Dear Sir,
One of the things I’ve struggled with over the years is how to handle the blessings of the Lord without feeling like I’m bragging. When God surprises me with a bonus at work or when someone blesses me financially because they felt led by the Lord, I hesitate to share it. If I do, people sometimes respond as if I’m trying to act better than them.
I know that God’s blessings are not about me being a better Christian or having a better covenant, but it’s still awkward.
I don’t want to feel guilty for being blessed, but I also don’t want to hurt others. What do Word of Faith people generally teach about this tension?
Sincerely,
A Grateful but Hesitant Believer
🔹Dear Friend,
You’ve touched on something that many believers wrestle with: how to walk in God’s blessings openly without guilt, pride, or unnecessary restraint. The Word of Faith message has always emphasized that God’s blessings are meant to be enjoyed, but also stewarded with wisdom, humility, and love.
First, remember this: you are not wrong to rejoice in what God has given you. Paul said in 1 Timothy 6:17 that God “richly provides us with everything for our enjoyment.” Testimonies of blessing are not boasting—they are evidence of God’s faithfulness. Hiding them out of guilt does not honor Him.
At the same time, wisdom tells us there’s a time, place, and audience for everything. Jesus taught in Matthew 7:6 not to cast pearls before swine—not everyone can receive your testimony in the spirit it’s given. Some may interpret your joy as superiority, when really it’s gratitude. That doesn’t mean you are wrong; it means they are not in a place to celebrate with you.
Word of Faith teachers often counsel this balance:
• Share to glorify God, not yourself. Frame blessings as His goodness, not your cleverness. “The Lord surprised me with this bonus—He’s so faithful” sounds very different than “I got another blessing because I live by faith.”
• Discern your audience. With faith-filled people, testimonies inspire and stir expectation. With those who are hurting or struggling, sometimes silence or sensitivity is love. Romans 12:15 says, “Rejoice with those who rejoice, and weep with those who weep.” Both are biblical.
• Bless out of your blessing. If God gives you a trip, maybe bring back a small gift to your friends at work or invite them into your joy by sharing the experience thoughtfully. That way your abundance overflows into encouragement rather than comparison.
The general consensus among Word of Faith voices is this: Don’t apologize for being blessed. It is the fruit of covenant, obedience, and God’s goodness. But don’t flaunt it either. Carry it with humility, give glory to God, and look for ways your testimony can encourage rather than discourage.
A true testimony shines light on the Giver, not the receiver. When you keep that focus, you can celebrate freely without guilt.
In His service,
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Points to Ponder:
When God blesses you, how can you frame your testimony so that it honors Him and encourages others without stirring comparison?
🙏🏻Prayer Suggestion:
“Father, I receive Your blessings with joy and gratitude. Teach me to share my testimonies in a way that glorifies You, blesses others, and points every heart back to Your faithfulness. I refuse guilt, and I choose to walk in humility and freedom as a child of Your covenant. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.”
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blessings, prosperity, boasting
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