Terms of Endearment

Where Does a Frightened Lamb Run?

The Sojourner: Professor, a young Christian recently asked me about being friends with the Holy Spirit. She wants to know Him personally—not merely as a doctrine, a mysterious force, or a name mentioned at the end of a prayer. She wants to talk with Him during the ordinary movements of her day.

I understand what she is reaching for. She is asking whether she can speak with the Holy Spirit while driving to work, walking through a store, making a decision, or simply trying to understand what God is showing her.

But how should a believer address Him? Is there a tender name for the Holy Spirit corresponding to Abba for the Father?

The Professor: Scripture does not give us a term of endearment for the Holy Spirit that corresponds directly to Abba. Even Abba is not merely a childish nickname. It is a deeply personal family word expressing the trust, belonging, affection, and respect of a child toward her father.

Interestingly, it is the Holy Spirit Himself who enables the believer to cry, “Abba, Father.” He does not draw attention away from the Father and Son. He makes our relationship with Them living and real within us.

The Bible calls Him the Holy Spirit, the Spirit of God, the Spirit of Christ, the Spirit of Truth, the Comforter, Counselor, Helper, and Advocate. Each title reveals something of His nature or ministry, but Scripture does not provide a private pet name for Him.

The Sojourner: What about calling Him Teacher?

There is warmth in that word, but there is also deep respect. A student can be close to a beloved teacher without forgetting who is teaching and who is learning.

I can imagine a young believer saying:

“Holy Spirit, Teacher, help me here.”

“Teacher, show me what I am overlooking.”

“Teacher, help me understand this passage.”

“Teacher, correct me if I am thinking wrongly.”

Would that remain within the boundaries of Scripture?

The Professor: Yes. “Teacher” is a beautiful and biblically grounded way to address Him.

Jesus said:

“But the Comforter, which is the Holy Ghost, whom the Father will send in my name, he shall teach you all things, and bring all things to your remembrance, whatsoever I have said unto you.”

—John 14:26

Calling Him Teacher acknowledges both relationship and order. It says, “I trust You to know what I do not know. I am listening. I am willing to receive instruction and correction.”

The Greek form used when addressing a teacher directly is Didaskale—“Teacher!” Although Scripture does not record believers addressing the Holy Spirit by that Greek title, the word accurately describes a ministry Jesus explicitly assigned to Him.

There is no need to make the Greek word into a formula. The simple English word may be even more meaningful when it rises naturally from the heart:

“Holy Spirit, Teacher, help me here.”

The Sojourner: In our Word of Faith camp, to whom are we generally taught to direct our everyday conversations? Should we speak to the Father, to Jesus, or to the Holy Spirit?

The Professor: Our camp normally distinguishes between a definite prayer or petition and the believer’s ongoing fellowship with God.

The usual New Testament pattern for prayer is to pray to the Father, in the name of Jesus, with the help of the Holy Spirit. Jesus said:

“Whatsoever ye shall ask the Father in my name, he will give it you.”

—John 16:23

Therefore, when bringing a petition before God, a believer might begin:

“Father, I come to You in the name of Jesus.”

But everyday fellowship is not always expressed in such a formal manner. When driving, shopping, working, or making ordinary decisions, believers often speak simply to “God” or “the Lord.”

The Holy Spirit, however, is the Person of the Godhead particularly associated with our present, inward guidance. He lives within the believer. He teaches, reminds, warns, comforts, reveals, and guides. Therefore, it is entirely appropriate to ask:

“Holy Spirit, should I purchase this?”

“Holy Spirit, is this hesitation coming from You?”

“Teacher, what am I failing to see?”

“Help me know what to say when I arrive.”

The believer need not become anxious about addressing the “wrong Person.” The Father, Son, and Holy Spirit are not three competing departments of Heaven. They are distinct Persons, yet one God, acting in perfect unity.

We pray to the Father. We come through Jesus. We are helped and guided by the Holy Spirit. Yet we may enjoy fellowship with all three.

The Sojourner: Then let us take the question one step deeper.

When a young Christian—a lamb—finally breaks under the pressure of fear and runs into the arms of God, whose arms should she see within her heart?

When she is frightened and needs somewhere to lay her head, should she picture herself with the Father, Jesus, or the Holy Spirit?

The Professor: Let the frightened lamb run into the arms of Jesus.

Jesus is the biblical face of God’s tenderness toward us. He is the Good Shepherd. He welcomed children into His arms. He touched those who were suffering, received those who were rejected, and invited the weary to come directly to Him:

“Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.”

—Matthew 11:28

John rested against Jesus at the supper table. Therefore, when a frightened young believer needs arms, a shoulder, and a safe place to rest her head, Jesus provides the clearest biblical picture.

She may say:

“Jesus, I am afraid. Please hold me.”

“Jesus, I cannot carry this pressure any longer.”

“Jesus, I am resting my head against You until my heart becomes quiet.”

“I am Your lamb. I am safe with my Shepherd.”

This does not bypass or exclude the Father. Jesus said, “He that hath seen me hath seen the Father.” The compassion seen in Jesus is the revelation of the Father’s own heart. When the lamb runs into the arms of Jesus, she is receiving the Father’s love expressed through the Son.

The Sojourner: And where is the Holy Spirit in that moment?

The Professor: He is the Comforter dwelling within her.

Scripture does not ordinarily give us a physical picture of laying our head upon the Holy Spirit. His ministry is inward. He makes the love of God real within the believer’s heart. He brings the words of Jesus to remembrance. He bears witness that she belongs to God. He comforts, strengthens, and helps her recognize the nearness of Christ.

She might pray:

“Holy Spirit, Comforter, help me receive the love of Jesus.”

“Teacher, remind me of what Jesus said.”

“Help me become conscious of the fact that the Father has not abandoned me.”

The Holy Spirit does not manufacture an imaginary Jesus. He awakens the believer’s heart to the reality of the living Christ and to the love of the Father that is already hers.

The Sojourner: Then perhaps we could express it this way:

The Father is home.

Jesus is the Shepherd whose arms receive the lamb.

The Holy Spirit makes that embrace living and real within her heart.

The Professor: Yes. That is a tender and orderly way of understanding it.

Still, we should never turn an inner picture into a rigid formula. One frightened believer may instinctively cry, “Abba, Father,” and see herself received in the Father’s arms. Another may run directly to Jesus and rest against the Good Shepherd. Both can be expressions of biblical truth.

But for the young lamb who needs to know where to place her head, Jesus is the gentlest and clearest starting point.

She does not need impressive language. She does not need to understand every theological distinction before she can receive comfort. She may simply say:

“Jesus, hold me.

Holy Spirit, comfort me.

Father, keep me.”

Or perhaps only this:

“Jesus, I am Your little lamb. I am resting here with You.”

True fellowship with God is not proven by possessing a secret name or mastering the perfect wording. It is revealed in trust, dependence, listening, and surrender.

The frightened lamb does not need to know everything about the Shepherd before she runs to Him.

She only needs to recognize His voice—and discover that His arms are already open.

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